The Little Things That Will Help Keiki Thrive This Holiday Season
The holidays don’t have to be perfect to be meaningful.
For keiki, some of the most important moments of the season happen in everyday interactions: a conversation in the car, helping prepare a meal, hearing a family story or simply knowing that someone is there to listen.
This holiday season, take time to connect, slow down and remember that the little things you do every day can help your keiki and your ʻohana grow stronger.
TALK, READ & SING
The holidays are full of opportunities to talk, learn and connect. You don’t need extra time, special supplies or a perfect plan. Simply bring your keiki into the everyday moments you’re already sharing.
Try it together:
🍳 In the kitchen
Talk about what you’re making. Ask your keiki what ingredients they recognize, count together or share a favorite family recipe and the story behind it.
🚗 On the go
Whether you’re running errands or visiting ʻohana, talk about what you see along the way. Ask open-ended questions like, “What was your favorite part of today?”
🎵 Make some noise
Sing a favorite song, listen to holiday music or make up your own silly song together.
📚 At the end of the day
Read a favorite book, tell a family story or ask your keiki to share something they’re grateful for. We recommending reading Kalo Boy.
MAKE SPACE FOR FEELINGS
The holidays can bring a lot of emotions for children and adults.
Excitement. Disappointment. Overstimulation. Stress. Joy.
Try it together:
☺️ Make room for your keiki to talk about how they’re feeling. You don’t always need to fix the problem. Sometimes, listening and letting them know their feelings are heard can make a big difference.
Conversation starter:
“What is something you’re looking forward to? Is there anything you’re worried about?”
This is a natural way to connect the holidays with Show Keiki Aloha and children’s social and emotional development.
FIRST, MAKE YOURSELF PONO
You don’t have to do it all.
The holiday season can bring full calendars, financial pressure, family expectations and changes to everyday routines. Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it can help you show up for your ʻohana.
A few reminders for parents and caregivers:
- Simplify when you can.
- Take a breath before responding during a stressful moment.
- Ask for help when you need it.
- Let go of the idea that every holiday moment has to be perfect.
- Make time for rest and connection.
THERE IS NO SHAME IN ASKING FOR KŌKUA
The holidays can also be a difficult time for families. If your ʻohana needs support, asking for help is a sign of strength.
Need help navigating resources for your ʻohana?
Hoʻoikaika’s Navigator helps connect families across Maui, Lānaʻi and Molokaʻi with services and support.
Call our Navigator at 808-242-0900 Ext. 244.